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Dear Associates Readers, multiskilled professional team in conjunction with various publication companies and writers have concluded the terms and condition for READERS AWARD for 2014, the award will officially kick off on the 1st of February 2014. The criteria for winning the award will be communicated to you soonest. More importantly, what will rate individual high is the comment you make at every time you read our post. 

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MARRIAGE COUNSELING-NEVER SAY MY PROPERTY

NEVER SAY MY PROPERTY :RULE NUMBER 13

When couples are married, they enter into a contractual agreement that bind their relationship, their emotions, earthly possession and whatever that life can offer together. Every country has a civil law that protect both the wife and the husband,breach of this law by either party will lead to penalty which might be severe. In America, if you separate or divorce your wife without any tenable reason, the law protect the wife to have at least 50 percent of your total asset. If children are involved, she could have a higher percentage. In Nigeria, British law applies; if you decide to divorce your wife with no cogent reason, if the marriage is done in the law court, you will forfeit considerable amount of your assets and will be obligated to pay a certain amount of money to a designated account to take care of your children.

Note: Never say my properties, say our properties.

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MARRIAGE COUNSELING-RULE NUMBER 12

SAY I LOVE YOU EACH DAY

Over time most couples do not understand that the same affection that lead to winning the heart of your partner should be nurtured regardless of how long the relationship has stayed. Women need assurance and reassurance while men love to be treated like a baby. If you are a women handled your husband as if he's your baby and he will dedicate all her heat to you. Men should initiate the slogan I LOVE YOU and your wife will trust you for life. The powerful slogan build a strong and high level of commitment and trust and love in every relationship.

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MARRIAGE COUNSELLING

RULE NUMBER 11
Plan and learn to eat together

In a personal interview i have conducted with couples, information reaching me indicated that about 25 percent of the total couples i met with only eat together while 75 percent doesn't. When i asked a follow up questions why this was not so, they responded: i hardly stay at home together with my wife because of my job and personal commitment. Little did i know that eating at home with my wife has given me opportunity to get some information from her both personal and career wise. She feel more comfortable asking me few questions bordering her at meal time than a conventional stereotype meeting.

Are you an office worker who come home everyday? if you cannot achieve twice in a day, pls make dinner a memorable meeting, and maximize your time at home over the weekend.

Are you a business tycoon? who always travel on Mondays and return during weekend pls maximize your weekend by either taking your wife out with children to have fun or you can create fun at home.     

MARRIAGE COUNSELING

RULE NUMBER 10

TALK ABOUT SEX AT LEAST ONCE IN A WEEK

Sex has two major purposes, first as a medium for procreation, second it serve as a medium for expression of love and equally form a strong bond between husband and wife. It will interest you to know that most couples based on survey carried out end their conflict during sex. Sex as created by God serves as antidote for couples and most couples have expressed their gratitude to God for this special gift.

MARRIAGE COUNSELING

RULE NUMBER 9

Plan weekly time to stay alone together

Some couples deny themselves the opportunity of staying alone for at least once in a week. we live in a fast pace world where little or no time is spent with your spouse or children. Most people are too preoccupied with jobs,friends and other engagement but in the long run loose their spouse. The rate of divorce most especially in the advanced countries grow by day, many are due to lack of time with family members. This can lead to infidelity on the part of the receiving partner.

Warning: Emotion is a sensitive part of the well being of human mind, effort should be made to nurture it. Never stay away too long from your spouse!!!