Question:Jensen, I'm already 30 years of age, with minimum qualification of ND, No job at the moment, still squatting with someone. I met a lady one year ago, we dated and are now courting, she just completed her NCE programme. I'm deeply in love with her and have proposed to get married in Oct. What should i do?
The first thing to do is to get a job or something doing that can put food on your table and at least feed two mouth.
To actualize your plan you need to
1. Save to be able to secure portable accommodation,you cannot get married while squatting.
2. Remember you need to averagely plan for what will be in the mega apartment you want to live with your future mate, that takes time too.
3. You need to save for the event, take a stock of how much you will need to get married in you country of birth. If you live in Britain or America you might spent much, if you desire to do so.
4. When you have save considerably for the event and life after the event then you are set to settle down.
5. Don't rush into letting people deceive you that they will support you, they might never do.
Plan as if you don't need anyone to help you!!!
The first thing to do is to get a job or something doing that can put food on your table and at least feed two mouth.
To actualize your plan you need to
1. Save to be able to secure portable accommodation,you cannot get married while squatting.
2. Remember you need to averagely plan for what will be in the mega apartment you want to live with your future mate, that takes time too.
3. You need to save for the event, take a stock of how much you will need to get married in you country of birth. If you live in Britain or America you might spent much, if you desire to do so.
4. When you have save considerably for the event and life after the event then you are set to settle down.
5. Don't rush into letting people deceive you that they will support you, they might never do.
Plan as if you don't need anyone to help you!!!
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