Question: Laurence, i have dated series of ladies,six months ago, i started courtship. How long do i need to court before i get married?
Experts says courtship is a period of planning and effort must be made not to extends the timing beyond one year,six months is the minimum. Their is danger when you extends courtship beyond suggested time:
1. It may lead to casual sex
2. One party may change his or her mind
3.The anxiety is gone because both parties already have moral knowledge of each other before marriage.
4. Families may suggest quitting most especially for the ladies.
5. Ladies may develop sense of insecurity
6. If the guy is rich other ladies might put pressure on the guy.
Note: Do not allow your courtship to stay more than necessary, in all you do plan and apply wisdom.
Experts says courtship is a period of planning and effort must be made not to extends the timing beyond one year,six months is the minimum. Their is danger when you extends courtship beyond suggested time:
1. It may lead to casual sex
2. One party may change his or her mind
3.The anxiety is gone because both parties already have moral knowledge of each other before marriage.
4. Families may suggest quitting most especially for the ladies.
5. Ladies may develop sense of insecurity
6. If the guy is rich other ladies might put pressure on the guy.
Note: Do not allow your courtship to stay more than necessary, in all you do plan and apply wisdom.
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