RULE NUMBER 7
RULE: Resolve your conflict yourself
Over time most couples who take the pain to resolve their conflicts themselves hardly find themselves in a serious mess. When you are angry over an issue that need attention, give yourselves adequate time to relax and find a conducive environment to sort it out without introducing a third party. This demonstrate a high level of maturity in marriage and that you are willing to learn together. In African context, most men want to dominate an argument and ignoring their partners input. In America and Britain when men ignore or hurt their wife or refuse to involve them in sensitive decision, they sought the help of marriage therapist. Note, men should take the lead and resolve any conflict whatsoever with their partner without violent. Aristotle said ''SAY SORRY TO A WOMAN EVEN IF SHE IS WRONG''. To succeed as a couple adhere to rule number 7.
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