RULE NUMBER 6
RULE: COUPLES SHOULD BE ALONE FOR THE FIRST FIVE YEARS OF THEIR MARRIAGE.
I met a man who has been married for the past fifteen years, he told me the only mistake he made in the early stage of his marriage is to allow someone living with them in the first five years of their marriage. He said i never appreciate my wife until we stayed alone.
Newly married couples came from different background and training, their five years should be a period of leaning and understanding each other.It should equally be a period for them to enjoy honeymoon. Some marriage therapist said honeymoon for couples should be a lifetime pursuit. So if you must succeed in your marriage adhere to rule number 6.
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This question came up in our Dating and Marriage Questions Answers Group on Facebook. It was agreed that couples should really be left alone. Granted that in Africa, people carry siblings and parents along in their marriage even before old age, your recommendation for at least five years is wise counsel. It is really important that newly married couples be left alone to really get to know each other and gel without extended family nosing around.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing this wise counsel.
Francis